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What is a Justified Resentment?

The idea of a justified resentment can seem to be very comforting and yet be quite damaging at the same time, often leading to a somewhat distorted emotional response to an event or a situation. […]

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How Important is It ?

How important is it ? Slogan in Recovery This is a  slogan used in many 12 step fellowships , as well as the broader self help and mental health recovery worlds. Its main benefit is […]

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Take what you like and leave the rest ….

‘Take what you liked and leave the rest’  – Al-Anon Closing Statement  The above statement is read at Al-Anon meetings as part of the ‘Suggested Al-Anon Closing’. It gives people the freedom  to decide for […]

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Our unity in God …….

” The truth is that our unity in God is not something we have to create, but something we have to discover’ God of Surprises, Gerry Hughes Step 2 describes being restored to sanity. For […]

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Hurt People Hurt People ……..

Emotional pain is just as real as physical pain but is often much harder to see in oneself and other people, and often much more difficult to be really sympathetic to. The nature of emotional […]

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Progress not Perfection ………..

To put it in context, the phrase ‘progress not perfection’ is taken from the book Alcoholics Anonymous, Chapter 5 entitled ‘How it Works’. The actual phrase is ‘ We claim spiritual progress rather than spiritual […]

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Doing Esteemable Things ………..

Doing esteemable things is a piece of advice often given to people in recovery who struggle with the own self-image or self-esteem. Whilst it may seem practical to make yourself feel better by doing good […]

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Let it begin with me ….

Let it begin with me is perhaps one of the less well-known slogans in recovery, perhaps more commonly associated with Al-Anon or Coda, but it is definitely one of the more effective sayings in helping […]

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What Do Character Defects Really Mean?

What Are Character Defects? The phrase ‘character defects’ is often used in 12 Step Recovery, unfortunately not in the context that it was originally intended. This often leads to a more judgmental approach by people […]

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The Sobriety Handbook

Available Here -The Sobriety Handbook What is Sobriety – What does it mean? What seems like a really simple question takes on a very different meaning for someone who has struggled with a serious drink […]